Well done! an excellent article, Brian, which took a lot of courage to write. Calling a dangerous mindset for what it is — like expressing disgust at sexist jokes as a male in a group of men, for example — takes courage. We have a long way to go as a society before it could ever be considered safe for all members… the ball is in our court.
Articles like these highlight the WHY this mindset is bad. We can each develop HOW best to deal with the problem that suits our personality and style, but in a way that builds society beyond where it is.