A Wake up Pill, Perhaps?

We’d been into different challenges everyday especially dealing with our emotions and every time we battle with them, it is either we won or we lose and we do learn. Our personal decision matters…and the way we handle and deal things absolutely represents our core self — of who we are and of what we are capable of doing.

Do you spend time talking to your mind and your heart frequently? Yes I do. Because their thoughts complicate me all the time. Sometimes my heart dominates my entire decision making that loses my brain to actually argue. When my heart shouts, I easily give in. I forget everything and I completely ignore my mind talking to me not to do what my heart says.

On the other hand, as a career oriented and goal driven person, you sometimes forget to add flame to your emotions like valuing relationship or establish one. With your loaded schedule, a romance isn’t a priority or you really forget it unconsciously. And when you are alone and too tired, you started to feel that there’s something missing, it seems you are empty aside from being successful — in short, you realize you need a partner. So you socialize, you meet others, and you give chances and you wait and you lose patience and you made desperate moves and bang! You created problems, you added another stress and you are now into complaining…the worst ever!

I completely understand that the essence of heart freedom is emotion — the capacity to feel everything. And that the relationship success depends on establishing and maintaining an open heart connection with your partner (I hope you agree with me). True lovers face and overcome their fears of intimacy, vulnerability and commitment.

Have you heard about LOVE buying? Is love for sale? Can I buy one? Then ask for what I want and I should get it with a price tag? This is a desperate move to actually support and fulfill your desires with money despite of your emotional discomfort, despite of the reality shouting in front of you that it isn’t right! And you kept ignoring because you wanted to buy love from the person that you liked to be with. By the way, is the person with a price tag worthy to be loved? Or is it really your mistake because you spoil him with his demands? I am snoring hard!

What about my mind?! Where is my mind freedom? I shouldn’t allow my heart to dominate. I should be conscious about these things, about this intentional choice. My mind said that a healthy relationship grows by having a positive attention to life and nailed them with a narrow understanding that things will absolutely happen the right way if you use your mind wisely. Well, I should gain power over what I think and how I think about it.

I felt that sleeping beauty passes that spell to me. I’d been sleeping then since I crave for a rush love life. My soul needs a wake up pill. A pill with a dosage of FAITH believing that everything will be in good place at the right time with the right person. That however bad things may be going at this moment, I’ll get my heart desires without a price tag and my life will unfold in a way that’s better than I could possibly have imagined or planned. This pill hopefully will cultivate my soul connection to know that I have all I need to express my greatness and accomplish everything fairly, that love is sacred to just label it with a price tag and that Love isn’t FOR SALE anyway…You don’t become whole by spending money to find your missing half; rather you work, play, and live as unique powerful individual creating love — a true love for a joyous lifetime. Have faith and learn to patiently wait and one day, you don’t have to earn or deserve it…you can CLAIM it with the right person not in exchange of money nor a price tag.

If one of you are on the same situation, we have to wake up! We need a wake up pill because it is really painful to love the wrong person. Everything seems wasted. It is your life, time, money, efforts are on stake and you took risks and ended broken. Definitely! What a sad truth so we really have to wake up and we need a wake up pill perhaps.😉