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Martin, I know that you are meaning well, but I feel like the idea that a woman just is looking for a man to ‘fill a role’ and sees one as interchangeable as the next feels very much like projection of the male point of view. From what I can see around me, women fall in love with a man’s personality and his uniqueness, and too often, a man is simply glad he is getting laid and will be just as happy with the next woman. If he forgets her name, oh well, they only had sex a few times anyways so why does it matter? I can agree, however, with your perspective that, at the foundation and very generally speaking, women and men have very different criteria by which they choose their partners.

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