Curious though; did you become a republican? I am basically in the same boat as you; a gay, white male who no longer can no longer consider myself a ‘feminist’ because I feel it is being used more and more to oppress my community. I don’t like Hillary Clinton, as I think she is bought out, and actually wonder if her camp has donated to blogs like Jezebel and Everyday Feminism to perpetuate these problems. However, I would never dream of voting for republicans, mostly because of their economics (not to mention oppressive social policies). I am going to vote for Bernie Sanders, personally, as I have never heard him say anything fucked up.