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Sandy Blackard

How Things Really Work

“Do what you should, and things will work out.”

4 min readMay 26, 2018

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How Things Really Work

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Sandy Blackard

The Perfect Response to “I want…”

You will often hear me say that what you like and what you love is who you are at any moment. What you want comes from there and determines…

5 min readDec 23, 2017

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The Perfect Response to “I want…”

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Sandy Blackard

Hidden Cause of Your Reactions

“You make me feel…” is not how it works.

4 min readOct 12, 2016

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Hidden Cause of Your Reactions

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Sandy Blackard

Un-Hating

What if we did not believe in hate? Or in vilifying people for any reason? 50 people in Orlando and countless more would be alive and…

2 min readJun 13, 2016

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Un-Hating

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Sandy Blackard

Safe, Not Scared

The world can be a dangerous place. It can be wonderful, too. Both are true. The key to raising children who love being in the world…

10 min readMar 23, 2016

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Safe, Not Scared

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Sandy Blackard

Where “Shoulds” Come From (and how to send them back)

Are your “shoulds” really yours? When a “should” comes from you, you nod when you speak it, feel validated when you hear it, and are often…

5 min readOct 16, 2015

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Where “Shoulds” Come From (and how to send them back)

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Sandy Blackard

How To Help A Perfectionist Child

Saying, “That’s OK. It doesn’t have to be perfect,” does not help a perfectionist child.

4 min readOct 6, 2015

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How To Help A Perfectionist Child

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Sandy Blackard

Sandy Blackard

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