Do You Actually Want It Or Like The Idea Of Having It ?

The REality Blog
Aug 9, 2017 · 2 min read

A lot of People in this world don’t know who they are. They think they do but they do, they don’t know who they are deep down to their core, all they know is their ego.

They make desicions based off of insecurity and running away from something that they don’t what to go through.

People pick and go after jobs, to avoid being broke just to find out that in all actuality they are unhappy with their job.

People chase money to get validation to be happy with themselves, just to find out validation is temporary and chasing it will leave you constantly changing yourself to fit in.

People chase partner to feel validated, just to find out that you can’t have a successful long lasting relationship with someone until you already validate yourself.

The most confident self approved people in the world are the most successful.

I’m talking about the real self confident people! Like even if they lost all the money they had, the success, the girls, they would still think “I’m the shit”.

These people have what I call “authenticity”, they don’t care what people think, and make desicions based out of love. They are secure within themselves, so they don’t feel the need to do anything for any reason other than the love for it.

That’s the difference.

People like the idea of having things because they have the idea that having it will cover up their scarcity and insecurity.

They confuse that with “wanting something”.

Then they wonder why it’s so hard to get it.

BECAUSE ITS NOT WHAT YOU ACTUALLY WANT.

Even if you do get it, you won’t feel fulfilled, or happy after a while, you will go back to feeling insecure, and in need of validation, you will never win!

Learn what you really want in your life, and what you love to do, and that will actually fulfill you.

Build Self confidence through writing repetitive positive affirmations about yourself every night for 20 minutes, for 6 months.

Write them in the “I am” Form.

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