Social media versus real life impressions
Impressions created by people over social media are, sometimes, exactly the impressions that are created when you meet them in person. But when the digital medium impression/personality type does not match the real life impression, it’s disappointing. When someone sounds promising over text but doesn’t deliver in real, it’s disappointing.
On the brighter side, there’s a tonne of people who do. At least, they sincerely attempt to. Those are the ones you need to be talking to.