I wasn’t suggesting that she needs defending, what I was pointing out was that even among Black people there is a leaning toward those who are more Caucasian than African in features when it comes to “attractiveness”.
I have a mixed race daughter who is attractive (like her mother) and she gets hit on far more often than her Black cousins do. It angers her. It confuses me. I wonder whether it is because both Black and White while growing to adulthood, get exposed to a “standard” via movies and television that sets that precedent.