The last paragraph here betrays your efforts and makes it seem like you’re looking for approval that you can go back to dismissing your adversary. If you wanted some standard or bar to clear it’s never going to happen. This is ongoing work, on and offline. And if you’re wondering WHY you need to do this, as a Clinton supporter the crass answer is: because your candidate lost. And the only way forward to convince a small number of people to flip next time. And that starts with understanding.