Becky with the good hair is just the symbol for the grass that her husband is checking on the other side of the fence. For me, perhaps my ex was checking my London equivalent of a Becky. Now whether or not this alludes to a subservient sexual act is another thing. That’s US HipHop culture. Right? Musical lyrical culture? Just the culture? The mainstream language and vocabulary? Totally enmeshed wth music and the lyrics the idols spout? The idols. Yes. The idols. Idolisation of such music figures who unapologetically say what they want however they want. They’re not our leaders whom we need to hold to account surely. We didn’t elect them. Or did we?