Thank you, hockeygrrrl! I cringed going to your comment because I was afraid it would be angry hahaha! You're right and I was going with the dictionary definition of bitch as in "difficult" so I appreciate that you didn't read into something more viscous.
We women are given so many mixed messages when it comes to dating. Sometimes we're even given the message to BE difficult. It's nice to bounce around these ideas around and confirm that we can choose to be the owners we wish to be, not what society or a book suggests.