The Orgasm Gap Isn't About The Friend Zone

Believe women and quit making excuses for men.

  • Religion has long relegated sex to procreation, and a female orgasm isn't necessary to procreate.
  • Women in our culture are still shamed for having more sex, while men are revered.
  • Culturally, we view penetrative sex as real sex. Anything else is looked upon as mere sexual activity or foreplay.
  • There's a general lack of knowledge about the clitoris and clitoral orgasm-- including how long it takes the average female to climax.

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