4 Tips to Avoid Being “Catfished” from People on Dating Apps

  • Review messages for personalization. Did the person reference anything specific from your profile? If the message seems generic (or is clearly a copy/paste), then there’s a higher likelihood of fraud.
  • Can they handle a follow up question? Many dating apps are hyper-localized, yet many fraudsters are operating from remote countries. Test your prospective future partner and mention something everyone in your area knows (the recent closing down of a local watering hole, local sports-team news, or if all else fails, the weather). Think about asking a question that won’t immediately show up in an internet search.
  • Invite your potential paramour to connect in-person, or at least move from texting within the app to ‘regular’ texting (or even video chat). A lack of willingness (or promises made and then broken, usually due to family emergency or technical difficulty) are a red flag. Chances of success are much higher and in your favor
  • Obviously if the conversation steers itself toward lending money (even for a taxi cab to come meet you), shut it down. Additionally, some catfishes setup conversations for long-term scams, so anything that appears too good to be true initially, often times ends up being just that.

Want more? Visit Simility.com and view our full article on how to avoid being Catfished online (plus get 10 great conversation-starter tips from a professional dating coach).

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