Southern Women and the True Meaning of, “Bless Your Heart”
Listen for the meaning, it varies.
Bless your heart.
When you live in the South, that phrase is part of everyday life. It’s no secret and a simple truth that television and filmmakers capitalize on.
What you may not know is the meaning behind those three concise words can vary greatly.
I love all women, but Southern gals have a special place in my heart, especially the genuine Southern ladies. They are the ones who look well put together, even on their worst days. You’ll seldom see them not smiling or helping someone. They can touch up their lipstick with hands bejeweled with long acrylic nails while driving a tractor with a toddler on their lap. Okay, so maybe not all that, but pretty darn close.
Our Southern Belles know how to wield these words just right. Have you ever wondered what, “Bless your heart” means? It depends entirely on how she says it. Here are a few examples.
I hurt for you
Attend a Southern funeral and you’ll hear, “Bless your heart,” many times. A consoling nod will accompany it with a gentle touch to an arm or shoulder. It may even come with a full-on bear hug.
