Last response. To tell women they don’t have the right to feel an emotion is demeaning to women. David, you are not allowed to feel irritated that women find that some situations with men fearful. In the shop talk/romantic date situation besides not giving consent for the date, she may be fearful of losing her job. She would not be the first to lose her job for rejecting a superior at work. No job, no money, no place to live. Not everyone lives in the world of Ivanka Trump where they would “just find another job.”