Deciding that I want my partner to be happy, and letting go of giving a shit about what they’re up to (as long as my needs are being met), helped teach me to take ownership of my own happiness.
Your husband shouldn’t be in trouble
Erin C Cummins

My partner and I have had this conversation a billion times — this angle, and the men as terrible dads (as portrayed by media). It’s ridiculous, as many men are great husbands who shouldn’t have to worry about “being in trouble” with their wives (and vice versa).