StellaKilling us with kindnessSomething I have always told my children is that you can defeat bullies by just being nice to them. By refusing to return malice, you…Aug 28, 2019Aug 28, 2019
StellaLessons From Love Island: Part OneFull disclosure: I mocked my brother in law for watching this last year. I despise reality TV. This year however, I was drawn into it a…Jul 10, 2019Jul 10, 2019
StellaWhite Women: The Band Aids of DiversityI am writing this because man alive, do we reallyneed to look at how people are reacting to white women vs other URM. IWe need white women…Jan 22, 20191Jan 22, 20191
Stella101 Of HiringLooking for the best candidates? Convinced there is a shortage of suitably qualified people? Still using resumes and taking referrals from…Jan 5, 2019Jan 5, 2019
StellaWalk The WalkOne of the things that really intrigues me about security people is how much we take people at face value, despite being the ones who…Oct 2, 2018Oct 2, 2018
StellaGuilt And Shame and BulliesBefore we start, let us look at this lovely tweet from a person seeking to laugh at themselves and also to inspire others not to give up. I…Sep 12, 2018Sep 12, 2018
StellaAn Assault On PrivacyBefore I begin, I would like to mention the work of Anna Lauren Hoffmann on Data Violence. I feel that her work has inspired and influenced…Aug 21, 2018Aug 21, 2018
StellaHere are a few words on networking and “lists of women in..”My aim here is not to criticize genuine attempts to do good. I do however want people to see how these lists can detract from inclusion…Jul 27, 2018Jul 27, 2018
StellaWhy Defcon is ok but toxic isn’t just a Britney song.I have written so many versions of this. Basically, I went to my first Vegas, first Defcon in 2017 and you know what, it was ok. I had fun…Jun 7, 2018Jun 7, 2018