An orgasm can last a lifetime
Have you ever laid in your bed thinking about all the times and tried to remember which one felt the strongest? Stayed with you the longest? The one that easily stood out par excellence?
I have. And believe me when I tell you, it made me moan out loud just re-enacting it in my head!

I’ve been fairly open and experimental with sex in my life so far, and the one thing I never forget to capture in my mind is that feeling right at the end. The one — that makes me want to jump out of my own skin, that makes me want to grab on to the sheets or hold on to the nearest piece of strong wood — the one that makes my whole body feel numb yet pumped at the same time and the one that stays with me forever and always from that point on.
The thing is, orgasms are deeply undervalued. Ironically, they’re undervalued because sex has been spoken about and discussed and debated upon far too much. Sex has, to a large extent, become synonymous with love. Yet there still is the big ‘lust vs. love’ debate. And in this tiny game of ‘who came first: the chicken or the egg?’, we’ve entirely forgotten about the big O!
I’ve had innumerable gossip sessions with uncountable friends where we’ve excitedly yet shyly spoken about our wild adventures in bed. And every time, each and every time without fail, not a single one of them has had better sex than their current partner! How insanely perfect does that sound?!
These men and women have conveniently convinced themselves of the existence of a sole person on this whole planet who can make their toes curl. That, to me, is absurd. Absurd beyond belief.
It’s hard as humans, for us to separate lust from love or vice-versa. Our minds are conditioned in a way so as to link the two. Scientific studies even prove that our hormones make sure we make these minor yet significant correlations.
It is, however, a far healthier practice to first, unlearn and then, train your brain to distinguish between the two. It won’t guarantee that you fall in love with the best sex of your life. Neither will it automatically make your current lover ‘the best you’ve ever had’. But what it will do, without fail, is let you experience sex for what it is. An orgasm.
