Write down every question you can think of starting with the ones that scare you the most.

How does it happen?

What are the risks to childbearing/ the fetus post-surgery?

Are there any risks in the operation itself?

How will I feel?

Is the operation traumatic?

Can I ensure that it’s a woman operating on me?

Will my insurance cover this?

Am I sadder than I realize?

Will I every get my sense of health back?

Will I feel less shot down by this?

What will it take to have healthy confidence?

I’m tired already. I just want to quit. I wish I didn’t feel that way.

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