Write down every question you can think of starting with the ones that scare you the most.
How does it happen?
What are the risks to childbearing/ the fetus post-surgery?
Are there any risks in the operation itself?
How will I feel?
Is the operation traumatic?
Can I ensure that it’s a woman operating on me?
Will my insurance cover this?
Am I sadder than I realize?
Will I every get my sense of health back?
Will I feel less shot down by this?
What will it take to have healthy confidence?
I’m tired already. I just want to quit. I wish I didn’t feel that way.