What to do after your heart’s been broken

I’m no expert. What I’m about to suggest could be considered completely genius or just ridiculous…

But hear me out…

We’ve all been through it… Wasting days & nights with a gallon of ice cream, Netflix and those comfortable ass joggers... Talkin ‘bout, “I’m never falling in love again!” And I mean, in the moment it does, it seems like the logical solution.

Why not become a heartless bitch and do to others what’s been done to you? You know, that way, you’ll never have to experience that sensation of losing it all… especially yourself.

And really there are a ton of ways to handle a heartbreak…

BUT as much as it would hurt, I think it would be worth it to maybe not shut yourself out and love everyone as hard as you can during this time.

Seriously, find some random (respectable) human being and love the shit outta them.

Don’t think about it… Don’t compare them to your past or measure them to your future. Just love them. Appreciate their story. Support their dreams. Admire their smile. Get lost in their eyes. Encourage trust. See passed their “flaws,” and passed their own personal reservations about love. & Just immerse yourself in loving someone… without any expectations.

EVEN IF NOTHING COMES OUT OF IT.

Because here’s the thing…

Love heals.

Period.

Doesn’t matter how or why it came about.

The amount of energy it delivers is sensational and the benefits are bound to be incredible.

Side note: Love yourself just as hard.

Tyler Franklin