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But, sometimes we do have agency, but are so harmed by the times we had none that we can’t see it. I think I had more agency than I understood when my boyfriend sexually coerced me, and I believe m…
Loving a dog does not mean “allowing it to attack us.” Loving a child does not mean “allowing it to hit, shout, or name-call.” So why would we ever think …
When we chase romance and excitement, we do to “love” what porn does to sex.