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Finally, I will share something that my secondary school Chemistry teacher, Mrs P M Joseph, shared with me. It was a lesson in self-care. She used the illustration of what happens when the cabin on an aeroplane is depressurised and the air masks drop. You know during the safety briefing on the flight you are told to cater for yourself first before you cater for others, in the event that there is a shortage of oxygen supply on board or the air is depressurized. The reason is simple. Assuming, the father/mother caters first for the child. The child will be fine but you would have slumped and the child can do nothing about it. Without control, the child will remove the air mask. Two casualties.
But if you sorted yourself out first, then you can assist the child and then take it from there. Same applies to self investing / development. Do it for you first and then you can help others. You need to keep your vineyard before you assist others to dress theirs.