TenaciousBatsInappropriate QuestionsI recently started dating a man that I have tons in common with, that makes me laugh, that makes me feel more comfortable than I’ve ever…Jul 9, 2017Jul 9, 2017
TenaciousBatsGet people out of public housing.The idea that this can be done, even for able-bodied people, without addressing wages that don’t keep up with inflation and a housing…Jan 25, 2017Jan 25, 2017
TenaciousBatsIt’s Not “Just Politics”As we get deeper into holiday season, I get deeper in a morass of anxiety, anger, hurt, and dread. People who claim to love me, and other…Dec 20, 2016Dec 20, 2016
TenaciousBatsPredatory “Allies”In the past month or so on Twitter and other platforms, there have been a couple of incidents with outspoken male feminists leveraging…Sep 9, 2016Sep 9, 2016
TenaciousBats“Are You STILL Disabled?”…“Are you exercising enough?”, a friend asked me a few weeks ago. I sighed. It’s very hard for me to still sound patient after explaining…Jul 26, 2016Jul 26, 2016
TenaciousBatsTW for Discussion of Rape in FictionA few years ago I was reading along with the Vaginal Fantasy Book Club on YouTube (SF/Fantasy/Paranormal romance). I hadn’t read much…Jul 25, 2016Jul 25, 2016
TenaciousBats“Catcalls”I’m going to explain this to you. What women refer to as catcalls and street harassment is not the same thing men arguing with us on social…Jul 9, 2016Jul 9, 2016
TenaciousBats“He/She Had A Record!”The cops hadn’t run their info yet to know that.Jul 9, 2016Jul 9, 2016
TenaciousBatsTW: RAPEI really want to expand on some ideas I’ve discussed on Twitter since the Brock Turner sentencing. The conversation floating around centers…Jun 20, 20161Jun 20, 20161
TenaciousBatsI’m very bothered lately by inspiration porn posts on Facebook.I ask the people sharing these pictures what the person’s name is, what their disability is, where they’re from. They don’t know. They…May 9, 2016May 9, 2016