I mean, what good does it do calling him or anybody else a ‘coward’ or an ‘idiot’?
“Congratulations, your life is so much better since you didn’t kill yourself?”
We all deal with a varying degree of pain. We won’t ever truly know what somebody else is going through. Assigning failure/success to death seems foolish given its inevitability.
We do what we can for others, reaching out, and hope for the best outcome. That’s all we can do.