The Solitary CookBlockedUnblockFollowFollowingA chef writing about cooking & eating in the Northern Rockies. Food for hundreds? No problem. For one? A different story. My story.May 18, 2016It is hard to live a life unable to make or keep well laid plans, to not be who we imagined, to do so much alone because so many choose to misunderstand.Real Life Inside and Outside the Veil.Colette Clarke Torres126I experienced this deeply when my husband died.