The Solitary CookBlockedUnblockFollowFollowingA chef writing about cooking & eating in the Northern Rockies. Food for hundreds? No problem. For one? A different story. My story.Mar 11, 2016And what I have found is that the men who I find interesting and smart and challenging are more into the intellectual part of me.Girl. Woman.Heather Nann472I’ve found them to be extremely few and even farther between.