Marriage isn’t hard. Marriage is being a better person and intentionally choosing to be #2. When marriage is hard, what’s hard is someone is trying to be #1. Being a good person is hard. Marriage is not hard. Some people are awful. That’s what’s hard. I love being married, because I love serving. I love making someone else feel good. I’m not happy in my marriage, but I love marriage. Unfair, right? I’m a #2 taking care of a #1 and that’s where the problem lies.

There are so many bathroom jokes here if you read this wrong.

Anyway, fight over who is #2, not #1. My free life advice for you.

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