I think this is an honest, humble, and a positive approach that both recognizes your privilege, and then actively makes a point to become inclusive. I feel like there is a such a wonderful network of black/brown writing voices here on Medium and Twitter too.
I have to agree. Seeing that the relationship is physically closed makes it more inline with a traditional monogamous relationship and the physical and sexual ownership that comes with it.
Sorry that happened to you. Social media screening from companies is both invasive and unethical. Especially in this time where everyone has social media and everyone has to work multiple jobs to provide for themselves, marketing themselves however they see fit.