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The most enduring shame an American can face is being unable to afford something that everyone else expects us to have. An undamaged phone — a new car — a nice residence — stylish clothing — the latest restaurant. It’s a never-ending cycle of consumerism, and not even to impress anyone, just to keep people from looking askance.

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