Do you know what a binary versus non-binary is? Do you know the difference between an “either, or” decision and a “both, and” decision? Do you understand that maybe I don’t have to choose between your feelings and another’s? You understand that we can both be considered and respected? There’s enough consideration and respect to go around.
It’s not as if when one person’s feelings matter then no one else’s feelings can matter. It just means that one person’s feelings don’t matter much to people like you, Steve.
When Black Feelings Matter, only then will All Feelings Matter.