No, I don’t “self ID every god damn day”.
The little F on my license came after I went through the proper channels, got actually diagnosed, and actually transitioned.
I’ve been against easier access for quite some time now… really starting when “proper diag and proper transition” gave way to “just sign a paper, here’s some pills”. It’s got nothing to do with it being a popular stance.
This is the biggest problem with you lot. Any time anyone doesn’t 110% agree with you, you just write it off as “transphobia” and “anti-trans”, never even entertaining the idea that some of this may be wreckless, or discussing anyone’s concerns. That’s what the problem is, the whole lot of you are just “me me me and f — what any of this does to those around me”.