Mary LasherHolding onIs she going to die? I ask the firefighter. It’s been 20 minutes since I’ve dialed 911, my wife is lying collapsed on the living room…Dec 26, 2019Dec 26, 2019
Mary LasherDead NameIt’s hard to keep up with the lingo, and I’m always learning new words. Thank goodness for Urban Dictionary. Recently I heard the term…Feb 20, 2019Feb 20, 2019
Mary LasherRealityOne evening about two weeks after Dana’s gender reassignment surgery I had let the dog out before turning in for bed. He scampered out the…Feb 1, 2019Feb 1, 2019
Mary LasherGround ZeroI started writing about being the Transgentle Wife when my husband of many years decided to transition from male to female five years ago…Jan 23, 2019Jan 23, 2019
Mary LasherMaking MistakesI’ve learned many lessons over the last six years or so. Lessons that I’m still learning today. One of the trickiest things to navigate is…Aug 31, 2018Aug 31, 2018
Mary LasherChangeToday marks the 6th anniversary of my partner’s sexual reassignment surgery. It’s hard to believe that it’s been six years already since my…Aug 28, 2018Aug 28, 2018
Mary LasherLetting Go of the FamiliarIt was 11 pm, and as I was tidying up before going to bed, I decided to let the dog out the front door rather than letting him take his…Aug 22, 2016Aug 22, 2016
Mary LasherMother(s) of the GroomWe have a big wedding coming up. My oldest son is getting married next Saturday. He is marrying a lovely young woman who is very…Jun 9, 20161Jun 9, 20161
Mary LasherWhy Not Me?Events in our lives, obstacles in our paths, hurdles to jump over and to dodge the surprises that are thrown at us unexpectedly really do…Feb 6, 2016Feb 6, 2016
Mary LasherI Already KnewI don’t remember the exact moment I realized that my husband was going to transition into a woman. It wasn’t like he sat me down at the…Jan 11, 20163Jan 11, 20163
