So what about chemistry? Preferences and aversions? Differences in age, religion or politics? Woman are not just putting “no hookups” on their dating profiles but “No Trumpsters” too.
John is attracted to Mary but Mary is attracted to Phil and won’t give John the time of day?
And Phil doesn’t even know of Mary’s attraction because she won’t approach Phil out of fear of rejection. Plus society says it is “unladylike” for a woman to approach a man.
As Mark Manson says, “It’s either fuck yes or no”.