Thank you for this. If I were a person searching for love at this point, I would not have a great deal of hope. There is always the sort of dudebro who figures all fat women are desperate and tries to take advantage of that. There are the jerks that proposition fat women on a dare from their douchebag friends. There are the lowlifes who act offended if a fat woman expresses interest in them. On the other hand there are those who fetishize fat women, turning us into objects rather than people. Can’t stand chubby chasers either. It’s a no-win situation, and I’m glad I’m not looking.