Yeah. I get that. I really do.
There *are* mansplainers seeking to justify heterosexual male privileges (especially White heterosexual male privileges) and associated abuses. They are loud and, on a good day, tone-deaf; on a bad day, outright insulting or even threatening. There are a great many bad days.
I can’t blame you if your empathy centers aren’t tuned to people like me. The sheer cruelty of members of my demographic group were always bound to produce that result.
Defending that noise is not my day job, or a hobby, or even a stray impulse. I’d rather defend you.