Venus above, child! What you’ve written is a recipe for a life devoid, not only of a husband, but of any man with any sense of self-preservation even considering living with you. The “by no means comprehensive” lists get more and more unfeasible as the decades go on; I’ve watched it.
There’s so much wrong with it that it would take an entire response piece and then some, to cover it; but in short answer, I wonder if your readers notice one all-encompassing dealbreaker for men here? You list all the things you require from him in the (never-to-be) relationship, while listing nothing, or next to it, that you would GIVE to it.