Dear Justin

Vattana Thach
Sep 3, 2018 · 6 min read
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Proud

I’m writing to let you know, & anyone who reads this how proud I am of you. We’ve been friends for a few years & it’s been a pleasure to watch you grow. You’re so different from when I first met you that it feels unreal sometimes.

I know it’s been a hard journey for you but I’m glad you always pushed forward. As a mentor, it was cool to see how quickly our relationship went from what felt like mentor and apprentice, to a genuine friendship, to a brother.

Growth Exchange

In some ways, you definitely taught me subtle lessons that I practice today.

Patience, trusting the process, respecting one’s process, overcoming ego, & staying true to myself.

You played a part in those things. If you didn’t know, now you know.

Recognition

In my eyes you’ve reached a point where I feel like you have a sense of identity & you stand your ground. You’ve become your own person and have adopted your own philosophies. You don’t back down from what you believe in and I love seeing that from you.

The Journey

What our relationship taught me was that, I was only ever here to be a brother to you. I had no interest in making you something you didn’t want to be. I only wanted you to find your own voice, not be my shadow or my trophy to show off. I’m so happy for you.

The Natural Laws Of Attraction

When I was aware that our relationship started to mature, I was excited. We may not spend time the same way as before. Way may not talk about the heaviest of things as often. We may not share every little detail of our lives. To me that is a sign of growth.

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Empathy & Respect

You are your own person and you know what you’re trying to do. You may not be able to word it because I understand that your decisions are being led by intuition. Not everything you feel can be explained, & I understand that.

Duh

You’ll continue to face hardships just like the rest of us, but always stick to your guns please. You’re different, and you’re misunderstood. I know this will continue to be a challenge for you. Don’t give in to what people think you should be, you already know what that’s like.

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PSA

I’m telling you all now reading this. Don’t assume things when it comes to Justin (or anyone actually) because if you do, you’ll get hurt. His soul is a vibrant one and to expect anything from him, would be a mistake.

Some people are difficult to understand and if you do not have the patience to understand him. You will be met with disappointment.

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Congratulations

On finding your own voice. Not giving in to the pressures of society, school, family, friends, or the market. It takes a lot to do what you did and to continue to do what you do.

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Thank you for being authentic. Thank you for allowing yourself to be vulnerable. Thank you for reaching a certain level of consciousness where you realize that everything we experience is temporary and you are not your emotions, but you have been blessed with the gift to simply experience them.

This is my way of officially saying congrats on graduating from being my apprentice ❤ haha. This wasn’t too sappy. I’m just happy for you man.

Closing Thoughts

I was inspired to write this after observing Justin’s growth for a few years. He started talking about some of the most difficult parts of his life and I sensed that he no longer held on to resentment and pain.

He now pushes loving people with no expectations. He knows who he is and who he wants to be. At that point I knew that my job as his mentor was done.

I know he may continue to call me that and tell people that’s who I am to him which is fine and I respect that. When I say that he’s graduated, it means that he’s in a place where he is aware of himself and is confident in his being and his decisions.

He values his opinion of himself more than anyone’s opinion of him, that’s why he’s happy.

Purpose

I only intend to create spaces where people can feel safe to express themselves. Feel free to share your story or anything you’d like in the comments or with me. I’d love to know what you’re thinking and feeling.

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Impact & How We All Play a Part

I’m always spreading knowledge and good vibes. If you think this can help someone, please share it with them. There is a lot of power in you tagging, liking, and sharing stuff you believe in.

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Updates & Info

  • I post-poned Soul Sessions Movement Workshop Series . I’ll announce a new date for that when I figure it out.
  • Inner Mission is going on hiatus to launch a big project in 2020.
  • I’m coming up with a social media plan to distribute content. That includes the podcast, live streaming, these blogs and making videos.
  • I’m really happy.

I write new blogs every Monday. My Early Access Patrons (EAP) receive them on Saturdays. If you would like to become an EAP, check out my Patreon.

If you want to know everything I’m about and keep up with the latest from me check out my website: https://www.VattanaThach.com

Justin, you deserve all the goodness and the struggles coming your way.

Vattana Thach

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