Nope, sorry. It isn’t about “hearts and minds” any longer. Not since Trump. Now it IS about actual harms, legal, physical, social, etc.
You’re proving my point by trying to tell me how to manage the harms we’ve suffered and the how to fight the battle we’re in.
What do you know about fighting for rights? When have you ever had to do it? What qualifies you, in particular, to take on more than a supporting role, here? (Which, by the way, you’re not doing a great job of either, if this is any indication of how you ‘help’)