Virginia Hall
Aug 9, 2017 · 2 min read

Honey? I Need To Tell You Something About Me That’s Quite Private.

We were all pre-ops at one time, and some still are, and some are non-ops. What will happen is at one point, if it ever gets to physical intimacy, where the person will tell you what their situation is. Few will do it like in the film, The Crying Game.

Likely this will be done because the girl decides you are a decent guy and worth risking an unpleasant scene versus how wonderful it would be to continue in the relationship.

My question for you is, do you already have suspicions? Is something not quite right? If so, it should not come as a surprise and no need to be upset. She is finally trying to get to the point where she can tell you what is happening. She may be on a waiting list to have things “fixed.”

Or, maybe you are totally stunned. No way! No way! No way this girl is anything but a gg. That’s always a nice compliment. And again, if she is so spot on, there is no need to be upset. She can tell you what she believes you need to hear.

The stories of finding out on the wedding night are rare, though I do know of one, so I won’t say these are urban myths.

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Virginia Hall is an early onset survivor of GD who writes about transgender and transsexual topics. https://www.amazon.com//dp/B01J79NVPU/

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