Gallie + Frey, My friend resume. Want your own?


My friend resume.
Want your own?
- Start by asking/listing qualities of friends you get on with. This is your audience/friend pool.
- Then, list your friend needs. This is what you need from your friends.
- Then, Activities and Interests you have.
- Then your friend skills. Generally one or two word statements though “Advocate for the Oppressed” is a four-word phrase.
- Finally, list Emotional Work You’ve Done. What have you spent time learning/what hasn’t come easy to you but you’ve mastered it friend-wise?
Seeking Friends for ADVENTUR!

Qualities of friends I get on with: — Atheist, Autistic, Cerebral Palsy, Gay, Gender Non-Conforming, Learning Disabled, Lesbian, Open-Minded, Non-Binary Gender-Identified, Pagan, Spiritual, Polyamorous, Queer, the Underdog & Trans
My Friend Needs: — Talking about Feelings & Dissecting Experiences Together — Shared Activities & Interests — Quiet-Time Hangout Friends
Activities & Interests I Have: — Advocacy — — Atheism, Cerebral Palsy, Equal Treatment, LGBTQQIA+ — Artistic — Fandoms — — DW (Doctor Who), HP (Harry Potter), Marvel Universe, MLP:FiM (My — — Little Pony: Friendship is Magic), OitNB (Orange is the New Black) and OUaT (Once Upon a Time) — Writer
Friend Skills: — Allistic friend — Advocate for the Oppressed — Good Listener — Reflexive Helper — Open-minded — Tell it like it is, 100% Honest
Emotional Work I Have Done: — Befriending gender and race activists without them babysitting me through the basics — Emotional bravery — Knowing How to — — apologize — — get called out & apologize for saying something dumb — — not be ableist — Non-judgmental — Patience — Rationality — — learning about cognitive biases and how to work around them — Thinking through cultural gender baggage and privilege
Originally published at gallieandfrey.tumblr.com.