Are They “The One”?

How to Know if Your Partner is “The One”

Written by Wekaw — Your Relationship Advisor

The question of whether your partner is “the one” comes up so frequently. So, how do you know? Is there a clear sign to look for? Will your partner tell you? Is it just a feeling you get? Unfortunately, there isn’t an exact answer to this question, but have no fear! There are ways to figure it out!

If the relationship is comfortable and holds minimal to no drama, and is still interesting to you, then that’s a clear sign there is a special connection between you two. Is there mutual respect in the relationship? Do you know how to make your partner happy if they’re feeling down? Do you want the same things out of life? If you answer “yes” to those questions, then there is a good chance you’re in a relationship with “the one”.


But what if you haven’t found “the one” yet? Don’t panic, we’ve got you! Multiple studies show that sitting down and writing down a list of everything you’re looking for in a partner makes finding that person so much simpler. Once you truly know what you’re searching for, your “one” will appear sooner than you might expect.

Before anything else, focus on developing a clear understanding of what you want in a partner.

If you don’t know whether your partner is the “one”, take our simple test below and find out!