P.S I get what you’re saying. I was a tom boy too, used to go to a high school for the “ naughty kids”. Got away with wearing baggy pants there. Then my mum made me move schools, where they wore tartan skirts nd knee high socks! On the first day, I got suspended for smoking. I found a spot I thought was perfect, turns out it wasn’t far from the principle. The other school had a designated place, how was I to know?
I hated that whole uniform getup I was short and chunky and not confident with my obvious curves.
I don’t own any pink clothing now, but I don’t detest it. AND one if my sisters is obsessed with purple.