I’m so sorry for your loss. I now how you feel. To be in a shadow of a sibling is a hard thing to take in. People know me by my sisters. And I’m not them! I’m me.. Just myself.. But now I speak up when someone calls me one of my sisters names. I just say no I’m me and they are who they are and its not me. So thanks for sharing. I thought I was alone in this shadow by myself.