Sterling Rose

… the other’s faults. It’s acknowledging that they are there, but working together to get past them. If there isn’t forgiveness and forgetting the past, we can’t move past it. That ties in with my viewing it as a marital relationship. And I realize doing that puts more on black people than white people.” — David, 39, farmer, Missouri

Recently, a man I dated briefly, whom I am still cool with, admitted that Black men treat dark skinned Black women differently (shabbily) than they treat lighter skinned Black women. He likened it to fucking a fat girl — she has good pussy and you love fucking her but you’re not taking her out in public, especially around your “boys.”Fam, I have always known this in my heart and in my soul because I watch Black men fall all over themselves for certain women. They buy houses, trips, dinners and shopping sprees with no questions asked. They talk about “wifin…