It’s nice seeing it from a different perspective. As a guy, its nice to see it in the perspective of the girl. I’m sort of in the same position as the girl. Love is difficult and its extremely difficult to face the facts and do what you know is staring you in the face. The time commitment and resources you put into the relationship is what gets me. But thinking like that hurts even more, you have to think of what you gained from the relationship, not what the relationship took from you. Only then can you really move on.