Foodies for thoughts: To uplift people out of dysfunctional label and learn how to appreciate their love for you.

TLDR: Once you start to spend time to appreciate and love your dysfunctional family and friends, with or without distance. You have less time to feel hurt or having the tendency of hurting back. Accept them as where they’re at in terms of comportment, thoughtfulness and consideration.

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To uplift people out of dysfunctional label and learn how to appreciate their love for you and stop the vicious cycle.

Your dysfunctional family lets you to freeload them when you are fucked.
Your dysfunctional friends let you to sleep on their couch when you are unemployed.
Your dysfunctional lover let you hold each other, and feels different.
Your dysfunctional community leader try to pull things together so that we wont go back to stone age and cast stone at each other.

Appreciate LOVE that is working for you, not that one thing they didn’t do that is going against you. For me, only positive relationship can help myself to thrive my dream come true.

We’re human. We manifest self-BS all the time. We fuss. But we need to un-fuss our mind and behaviour.

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Wong Lok 黃樂 (LokLok)

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