It’s no secret that sex workers are generally not the biggest fans of Kamala Harris. I have my fingers crossed that she doesn’t say anything cringe tonight. That she doesn’t tout FOSTA/SESTA as a high point on her record. Please, dear goddess, don’t make me sit through that.
But the truth is that Kamala could stand up there tonight and say problematic things about sex workers, and it would cut deep. But it’s not going to stop me from doing what I have to do. …
Hello, I’m glad you reached out to Me. This is an auto-response, informing you that I am currently engaging in distance domination. It is July 7, 2020 today, and I am still not comfortable taking in-person sessions.
I love to Skype, and my rate is $150 for a half hour. If you seem respectful and serious, I will respond and tell you how to pay me through Cash App or Amazon gift card. If you don’t hear back from me, reach out to me via SextPanther or Niteflirt.
(And if you are one of my beloved in-person pets, I will…
The Upward Spiral by Alex Korb, PhD — The subtitle of this book is “using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time,” but it might as well be, “How to Change Your Brain, Which Isn’t Broken — Just Different.” Korb clearly contains a wealth of information, but he presents it in such a helpful, gentle, and straightforward way. The first part of the book makes sense of depression by explaining that yes, it’s complicated, but here is what’s going on in your brain. He took great care to keep from overwhelming the reader. In…
I’ve seen a couple articles along the lines of “Things To Do During Quarantine!” As if we don’t all have to-do lists that are ten miles long, right? I often spend a fair amount of time in my house, and I love the flexibility that sex work provides. But even for those of us who normally spend time at home, these upcoming weeks will be unprecedented. (Side note: “unprecedented” is the word of the week — has anyone else noticed that?)
Despite the absurdity of everything, I’ve found these “what the fuck to do at home” articles inspiring, so I…
So, a little backstory here, along with a peek into my internal processes. I recently ran a poll, to feel out what my readers wanted more of. Not surprisingly, people want to read more about what I like, and why I like it. I cannot blame my readers for wanting to read smutty pieces about specific activities.
But what do I want to write about, and what do I actually like? Give me a second to remind myself which kink activities I haven’t touched on yet. I’ve written essays about age play, strap on, sounding, and verbal humiliation. And everyone…
Forced Intoxication in Los Angeles
The trip doesn’t start until you walk off the plane. At least, that’s how it always feels to me. LAX is a terrible place, but I enjoy taking it by storm. It was a brisk day in early December, and I was wearing cowboy boots, a black maxi dress, and oversized sunglasses. Some sort of cliché, but I didn’t feel like one. I felt adrenaline — the adrenaline that comes from hopping down to LA, getting paid, doing some perverted shit, and flying back to Oakland. Best of all, it was only a day’s trip…
I am here because I am a dominant woman looking for a submissive. I know who I am and what I like. I am 27 years old, and I have always been dominant. My very first boyfriend broke up with me because I was “too dominant” for him!
If you are looking for a pretty girl to fuck, that is fine, but you are wasting your time with me. I refuse to lead you on, and I encourage you to look elsewhere.
I am the definition of a straight shooter because I know exactly why I am here and exactly…
Once upon a quiet and over-caffeinated night, I decided to write this piece as a joke. But as I wrote, I realized that Niteflirt is truly an ever-changing beast. I decided to analyze the patterns of horny men all over the country, and all around the world. And of course, I am qualified to speak about levels of intoxication, and different types of intoxication. I wanted to perform an anthropological analysis, even (and especially!) a tongue-in-cheek one. …
The woodpecker dashes in the low trees,
despite the wet drab. It darts up one Cyprus branch,
then pecks the next limb. I doubt it struggles
with an internal dialogue…
Recently, a new lover asked me what I am looking for in relationships. I found myself answering, NOT this, NOT that. I wondered how I could answer this question in an affirmative way. So here is a wish list — it is mine, and it does not have to be anyone else’s. Let the record state I am not parading around as a polyamory expert. Polyamory is a choose-your-own-adventure deal, and I have seen different approaches to this lifestyle.
A mentor of mine often speaks of the power of wish lists. As children, we make wishes playfully, but we are…
I'm a writer, traveler, and professional pervert. Stay tuned for essays on sexuality, sex work, polyamory, and healing.