Pay attention to what God reveals to you. It’s natural human intuition to not believe the present signs that are before you. Not everyone is meant to be in your life forever. People come and go like the seasons, never be afraid to let go. That used to be one of my biggest problems but not that I have found assurance in myself I have no problem letting anyone walk out of my life. If you know the direction your life is going in then you should have no problem being able to see who really has your best interest at heart. In the long run you have to be able to look yourself in the mirror and not second guess yourself. Therefore finding your purpose means negative people will come with it. The good thing is that the power of the human imagination is able to direct certain attention and change it into something else. Which is what we commonly know as “turning a negative into a positive.” So it’s definitely all about your perspective. The bad thing about that is that negativity has so many different forms which can become hard to notice. My advice would be to seek power from the Creator to open your spiritual eyes to what is going on around you.