Denise SmithBlockedUnblockFollowFollowingBehavior analyst. Goddess. CA born, transplanted to Italy. Living a life "more strongly driven by curiosity than by fear” yearofbigmagic.com.Jun 22, 2016If your goal is to change another person by telling them to wake up, or giving them “tough love,” you will fail 99.99% of the time (I won’t rule out the possibility it could work once). Charlotte, you asked for answers, so here goes.Lon Shapiro3811Oh young Master, the Dark Side miss you it does. Your training completed is.