The Afghan Wedding Customs

Mohammad Yousaf Sakhi
3 min readNov 6, 2023

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Wedding Customs

The Author in A wedding Party in Ghazni

In recent years, there has been a shift in Afghan wedding customs, with people increasingly embracing and reviving their ancient cultural traditions. Gone are the days when Western wedding customs like wearing suits and ties and having modern-designed cakes dominated the Afghan wedding scene. Instead, there is a growing desire to reconnect with the rich heritage of the country.

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One of the most prominent changes can be seen in the way people dress for weddings. Traditional Afghan attire, such as the Afghani Parhan Tomban, has made a comeback. These garments were commonly worn by Afghans decades ago and are now being rediscovered and cherished for their cultural significance. The Parhan Tomban is a long, flowing dress adorned with intricate embroidery and vibrant colors, reflecting the artistry and craftsmanship of Afghan culture.

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Furthermore, the dance styles at Afghan wedding parties have also undergone a transformation. People are now eager to learn and perform traditional Afghan dances that were popular many years ago. These dances are characterized by graceful movements, rhythmic footwork, and expressive gestures, all of which tell stories and convey emotions deeply rooted in Afghan history.

The revival of these ancient customs is not just a passing trend but a conscious effort to preserve and celebrate Afghan cultural heritage. It is a way for Afghans to honor their ancestors, pay homage to their roots, and strengthen their sense of identity in an ever-changing world.

This return to traditional customs has been met with enthusiasm and support from both young and old generations. Many young Afghans have embraced this cultural renaissance as a way to connect with their heritage and promote a sense of pride in their traditions. The older generation, who witnessed the decline of these customs in the past, are delighted to see them being revived and passed down to future generations.

My parent's wedding day; from right: My Grandfather (Father's father), my father , my Grandfather(mother's father) and my father inlaw

The resurgence of traditional customs in Afghan wedding parties has also had a positive impact on the local economy. Local artisans and craftsmen who specialize in creating traditional clothing and accessories have seen an increase in demand for their products. This has provided them with a livelihood and an opportunity to showcase their skills and craftsmanship to a wider audience.

Hadi Yaqubi in his widding Party

In conclusion, the shift towards embracing ancient Afghan customs in wedding parties reflects a desire to preserve and celebrate the country's rich cultural heritage. By dressing in traditional attire and performing traditional dances, Afghans are not only reconnecting with their roots but also ensuring that future generations will continue to appreciate and value these customs. This cultural revival has not only brought joy and pride to individuals but has also contributed to the local economy by supporting local artisans and craftsmen.

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Mohammad Yousaf Sakhi

A believer in the power of stories to create a more beautiful world. Here to share my insights and transform mindsets through writing and reading. #Transforming